Beaten Down By Your Writing Life? This Story Will Make You Smile
How two donkeys taught me a profound life lesson
Have you heard my donkey story?
If you’ve been on my list for a few years, the answer is probably yes. However, since at least 75% of my Gentle Creative subscribers have arrived here within the last seven months (thank you), this will be fresh for you.
As writers we take a lot of knocks. There’s rejection, our family not understanding why our book is taking so long to write as well as those who think that being published means that you are selling lots of books.
Add to that our own neurosis, procrastination and shame that our writing isn’t where we’d like it to be and it is easy to get beaten down.
And don’t get me started on the state of the world, inflation and extreme weather!!
If you are feeling low or lost at the moment, this little story will warm the cockles of your heart.
The donkey story – you’ve got to shake it off and step up
There were two donkeys in the stable, Grandpa donkey and his grandson. The grandson, a keen little fellow, looked up at Grandpa and said, “Grandpa, how do I get to be a big strong donkey like you?”
Grandpa replied, “Son, you’ve got to shake it off and step up.”
The little donkey tipped his head on one side and tried to figure out what Grandpa had just said. Seeing the cogs whirring away in his grandson’s head he said, “OK, I’m going to tell you story:
Long ago when I was a young donkey, not much older than you I was out in the field one day when I fell down an old dry well shaft. It was deep and dark and no one knew I was down there. I scrabbled a bit trying to get out, but it was no use. I didn’t have a chance.
The only thing I could do was bray really loudly and hope someone would notice that I was down there. I brayed all day, as loud as I could. Eventually, just as it was getting dark, a man came along. I saw him look down the well and I thought, fantastic, he can rescue me.
The man went away but the next morning he came back and I could hear that he had other men with him. I was so excited. At last I was going to be rescued. But do you know what those men did?
The little donkey, wide eyed with fascination shook his head.
“Well I’ll tell you,” said Grandpa donkey.
They started filling in that hole. One of them said, “That’s an old well and an old donkey and none of them are worth anything.” They started shovelling earth down the hole. Lumps of clay started landing on me.
Initially I was in despair but then I had an idea. I shook the earth off my back and I stepped up on it. Down came the earth, one shovelful at a time. And each time I shook it off and stepped up.
As the day went by the well shaft became less deep. I just kept shaking it off and stepping up. Eventually, even though I was exhausted from all the effort, I was able to walk right out of that hole.
The little donkey brayed with delight as Grandpa finished the story.
So that’s how you get to be a big strong donkey like Grandpa here. No matter what life throws you, you gotta shake it off and step up.
It’s a goodie isn’t it?
Have a lovely weekend
Plodding gently
Cali xx
Photo by Erwan Hesry on Unsplash
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Great story - thanks!
Wow Cali! what a fantastic story! I can really vibe with how it feels when people don’t understand why my movies aren’t being made and why every thing is just taking so long and I think you really encapsulated what we often experience as creators in this newsletter. This donkey story is really a beauty! I must say that I was really surprised by the turn it took but at the same time was delighted by how it made so much sense. Thank you for sharing it. Really appreciate the weekly encouragement I get from you. Lots of love